I need advice

2021.09.21 22:10 Mysterious-Work-666 I need advice

People in the situation: Me/I My boyfriend (Bf) Male roommate (MR) Female roommate (FR)
Me and BF found out we were pregnant about 2 months ago. I had been on birthcontrol and I guess it failed. I had been taking at the same time every day for about 3 to 4 months straight. We found out about it at the end of the 5th week just about to go into the 6th. He asked me if... alternative means... were okay with me and we had this discussion before that it was not. He spent the next couple days talking me into it and I came around. But it still didn't happen because we live in the state Texas and my 6th week (when he talked me into it) happened to land on September 1st, when the new law passed that 6 weeks and over couldn't be aborted.
At this point he was upset and demanded we have to put it up for adoption and we figured now would be a good time to tell our roommates. When FR heard I was pregnant, she looked excitedly over to MR and said it was her turn to get pregnant. We explained that even though it hurt me we wouldn't be keeping it and it would be put up for adoption when born. This didn't stop them from trying though. FR went to an obgyn every week to see if she was fertile.
While this is going on me and BF are growing slowly more and more apart. He tells me we aren't and that I'm just stressed and over thinking. His whole schedule has changed. He use to go to bed at 11, at latest 1. Recently he's been coming to bed at 6 or 7 in the morning. He seems to want to do everything that I can't be a part of and when I ask him or tell him I feel like somethings wrong I get a "shut up you know nothings changed. I still love you," which doesn't make me feel better, if anything it makes me feel like I'm being put on a back burner.
Well FR and MR have been trying for the past while now and she took a test 20/30 minutes ago as of this post and she was excited to find she is pregnant. I want to be so happy for her. I want to be excited for her but all I feel is hatred, pain and numbness. I'm now put into a position that has me in more stress.
If I give up my child after birth, how can I live with another woman and her newborn when 2 months prior I had to give mine up. And if I demand I keep it that means we would have 2 newborns living in the same house. I'm more stressed than I've been about the whole thing up until now.
My dad says I can come home and he would help get me home. But if I go home I would have to leave BF because he doesn't want to go back to our hometown. But if I stay do I risk ruining our relationship by demanding we keep the child.
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2021.09.21 22:10 AwkwardFrenchie Help!! I NEED TO TURN THIS RECEPTION AROUND. Operations Supervisor, but really an Front Office Manager with nothing.

Hi guys, I was wondering if anyone could help me.
I've just started a job at a branded 4* franchised hotel, the role was described as essentially an operations supervisor role. However now that I am here, it is clear they expect me to do the same things a Front Office Manager would. Which I guess I am very grateful for the experience.
Nothing is in place, and I mean nothing. The FO checklist is poor to say the least, there seems to be no procedures in place (staff don't close their shift, everything is everywhere, no order or organisation). No handover book, no cash drop booklets, nothing).
I am up for the challenge, as I really want to transform this place and make it run a little more effectively. Now this is where I need help, and as much as possible.
Does any one have any templates that they are using that they find useful for checklists, handover books, cash drop sheets, checklists.
Anything would help, I am starting from scratch here and would really welcome any Excel spreadsheets, Word documents, etc... (Obviously without confidential information).
Thank you in advance for your help :)
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2021.09.21 22:10 GmailHail Cars blocking right of access to driveway

Hello All. I purchased a terraced house which has a driveway however in front of my driveway is a pedestrian footpath and in front of this is a paved area with a dropped kerb where there is space for a car to be parked.
This is the exact same layout for the neighbours to my right. The neighbours to my left have a grassed communal type parking setup in front of their houses meaning they cannot access their driveways.
So... the issue I am facing is when I return home I find cars parking on this paved area blocking access to my driveway. Solicitor searches showed that the paved area is NOT common land meaning I have right to access my driveway. Historically all the houses on my side of the road had grassed area in front of them but fast forward now, some are paved and some are still grassed.
Is there anything I can do to a) stop people blocking access to my driveway? and b) somehow ask the council or highways England etc to widen the road essentially removing this paved area?
I know the latter is unlikely as this would affect (for the better I hope) all my neighbours. Please any ideas or help would be truly appreciated!
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2021.09.21 22:09 Sportspub TIFU by letting a homeless friend move in update

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Why would Brendan say no one wanted Deandra/act like she was undesirable when he puts mixed/light skin women on a pedestal and told his friends that he is attracted to girls that look like her? Do you really think he comment was racist?
Brendan first told his friends on the beach that he was attracted to women who looked like Pieper, Deandra, and Maurissa. Later on he was rude to Deandra when she confronted him and he tells Pieper that Deandra is just mad no one wants her. Deandra discusses the comment on this podcast: https://youtu.be/M0yr5xfAe24
Do you really think he was using the racist trope of black women being undersirable on her with that comment? It doesn't make sense because he seems to put mixed/light skinned women on a pedestal and even admitted to being attracted to her. Do you think he was also trying to talk badly about her to show to Pieper that he was not attracted to her even though he was?
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