2021.10.19 21:20 Ashleyy3654 How can I find and reconnect with my old best friend (F,22)
I had a best friend growing up for years. We became friends during primary school in our younger years around age 9 and 10 and only became closer during our teenage years although we ended up going to different high schools.
This friend had aspergers which led to her not wanting to do certain things and although looking back on it I realised how much I crossed her boundaries at the time I would always try and pressure her into doing certain things. For example, as we started getting older (age 16 and 17) I would begin pressuring her into Going and visiting new places she didn't feel like going, or deviating from a routine that she didn't particularly like doing. For example if we always stayed in our local area I would encourage her to visit other areas so it didn't feel like we were constantly doing the same thing. I would try and force her to reply to messages or for us to go out even if she just felt like staying at home that day and got very angry at her if she didn't do these things.I realise my behaviour was very toxic and at the time I justified it by telling myself how boring she was and how she wasnt growing along with our friendship. I began getting tired of doing the same things we were doing as children and thought she was selfish for not accommodating me and began to think I was the one putting all the effort into the friendship, although looking back I realise a lot of this was due to anxiety and mental health and not something I shouldve taken personally.
Once we turned 18, she ended up becoming tired of our toxic friendship and blocked me on all social media platforms and I had no way of contacting her. I'd try to call and message without fail but it went radio silence without warning. 4 years down the line I still think about her once in a while if a photo or memory pops up. I've tried searching for her everywhere but it's as if shes dropped off the face of the Earth and I cant seem to find any connections to her on Facebook,Instagram and even a Google search doesn't provide anything. At this stage years down the line im not even attempting to rekindle the friendship but simply just want to see if shes both alive and well. I've since moved away from where we both grew up so have no chance of bumping into her anywhere. I'd feel devastated if something bad has happened to her in these years and I had no idea about it or chance to apologise for everything, I've lost all contact and usually through the internet it's relatively easy to find someone but for some reason no matter how hard I try I cant seem to find this old friend of mine. We had 0 mutual friends so I also have nobody to ask about if they've been in contact with her recently. I understand that if she wanted to reach out to me she would have all these years but it's been so long that Lord knows what could have happened by now. What should I do? Is there a different way or method I can find this friend or should I cut my losses at this stage and just forget about it.
Tl;Dr-How can I search and find a long lost friend of mine.
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Hello fellow collectors!
Do you know any directors who will have a round anniversary in 2022? I've tried to think about a good answer to my question, but all those directors that came to my mind have an anniversary at a different year.
Thank you very much for your help!
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