2021.12.07 12:38 throwawayfostering Adopting family member? Husband and I disagree
Ok, so I (30f) have always known I wanted to be a foster parent, it has been in my heart since I can remember. I have my bachelors in child development and it’s just been something I felt strongly about since I was a child. I especially want to foster teenagers, as it’s my favorite age group!
My husband has always felt opposite. And I agreed to that when I married him, but he does say he’d be fine with a short term placement (like overnight or a weekend whatever) and we agreed not until our children are a little older.
Well, now my cousins, ex-step daughter (catholic family, so my cousin is actually older than my dad, and his step daughter is older than me) just lost custody of her teenage daughter for drug use and neglect (I have meet this daughter MYABE twice in my life, so I do not know her by any means)..
Well today the county contacted us as a “next of kin” , saying she needs a permanent placement (about 4 years until she is an “adult” but let’s face it, no one is a fully adult at 18). My immediate response was “of course” and my husbands was “no way!”
His concerns are all rational and reasonable, but to me, not big enough issues to force a child into foster care (ex. 1.not having space in our house, but we could finish our basement and make room. 2. we are only 30, so raising a 15 year old doesn’t seem like we are old enough, or know what we are doing 3. covid was hard on our family, as we are both self employed, but it’s starting to get better. 4. We have to worry about our own children, and we do not know this girl, I would assume she has a lot going on in her life, and I have always assumed she has at least some form of FASD)
I also know, if I were to tell my husband “this would mean so much to me to do” he would reluctantly agree, because he always supports me- but I don’t want to force parenting a teenager on someone who doesn’t want to.
So… has anyone been in a similar situation? Or have any advice?
I’m religious, and really truly believe this is what I’m suppose to to, and God wouldn’t have put this on my heart if I wasn’t suppose to do it— but I also wonder if this is a calling for the future instead.
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2021.12.07 12:38 Glossierii This surely has to be a joke? Who even wants this 🙃
2021.12.07 12:38 SSSS_car_go TMAF about the attack on Pearl Harbor, December 7, 1941
2021.12.07 12:38 sms42069 Is there any way to free this bishop? Please let me know ASAP
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2021.12.07 12:38 Technobrutale Ash whenever she runs out of throwables mid-fight
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2021.12.07 12:38 Potential_Jello_717 Hoof a piece of heaven 😍❤️ .
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2021.12.07 12:38 Anomial123 How to stat learning spring
I have learned some java and my next step would therefor be to start learning and using spring. From your experience, what would be the best ways to learn Spring and also the notion of how a Framework works (since it will be the first framework I will learn) ?
I have saved this coursera course for Spring (https://www.coursera.org/learn/web-development-with-java-spring-framework?ranMID=40328&ranEAID=JVFxdTr9V80&ranSiteID=JVFxdTr9V80-LQX24YmVd1J8lYTO0QMvVw&siteID=JVFxdTr9V80-LQX24YmVd1J8lYTO0QMvVw&utm_content=10&utm_medium=partners&utm_source=linkshare&utm_campaign=JVFxdTr9V80#syllabus), but I also sometimes have the problem that in these courses teachers just jump into usecases without actually explaining, how the framework works. Thank for the info.
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2021.12.07 12:38 Icy_Calligrapher_946 Arduino motor driver help please
I have to create an arduino robot cart for a school project and im quite confused about almost everything. But the current issue im facing is that i dont know how to connect a motor driver ( for 4 dc motors) to an arduino uno while still needing to wire the sensors on it. I have 3 sensors, which im not so sure would work. Do i solder them on the motor driver? Where? Thank you for any help
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2021.12.07 12:38 tuuliuk The Unethical World Of Undercover Investigation
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2021.12.07 12:38 frigginit I started my first collection on OpenSea! Look me up: Sma11world or ChibiRappers aka the Sound Cloud of NFTs
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2021.12.07 12:38 SocialIslandGame Winner list of airdrops round2
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2021.12.07 12:38 Less_Cryptographer44 High gamma globulin
Has anyone here had high gamma globulin? Can you shed some light because it’s freaking me out. My gamma globulin is 1.80 with 1.51 being the cut off.
So far I’ve had high gamma globulin, high globulin, low lymphocytes, borderline high sed rate, low eosinophils, & low albumin/globulin ratio.
ANA came back negative, rheumatoid factor came back negative, TB is negative, and all hepatitis is negative.
I’m not sure what to make of this and searching it up only says cancer or autoimmune disorder, so I’m going to avoid google. Haha.
I already have hashimotos disease and also PCOS + insulin resistance.
So many of my symptoms overlap that I don’t even know what’s what anymore.
Someone please ease my mind. 🥲
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2021.12.07 12:38 gamerguy287 Does the Rootless Pixel Launcher slow down phones?
I love the Rootless Pixel Launcher, because it gives me access to the app drawer in a better way, and I hate having to scroll for my apps. However, I've noticed that with every phone I get, it slows down randomly. Could it possibly be Rootless Pixel Launcher, or could it possibly be the icon pack I have installed (Whicons)? I want to know what could possibly be making my phones stutter randomly.
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2021.12.07 12:38 SilveradoReturns Clave de frostpunk
acá les dejo una clave de frostpunk, dejen un comentario si lo canjean
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2021.12.07 12:38 NoviceShroomer Where to find Olympus Dao white paper?
2021.12.07 12:38 AddisonNM Traveling costs reimbursed, then deemed taxable.
I worked contract to contract, and my Team Leader at the time, pulls me aside. "Addison we need to talk..you drive to work, am i correct?" I admit I do infact drive to work, he shoves a form to me to get fuel costs reimbursed. "based on your home address, you could get upto $250 back, maybe more!" (it smelled scammy) i push back with "it's fine, really, i drive a 2012 nissan sentra 6speed". Short story, he badgers me into filling out my details, mostly signing up forms. I get reimbursed close to $300.00 Yah! Money in my pocket!
Update: I get called back months later for another contract, i get an email indicating all of us who received transportation reimbursements, will be taxed on it. That just seems scammy and wrong.
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2021.12.07 12:38 Stump007 Sense bar became a circle??? Xperia 1 III
Not sure why, but seems I got an update and now I can't have the bars on either side. Instead I get that circle flying on my screan like on old iPhone...
Kind of sucks, I really hate when they lush an update that completely changes usability, or maybe is it I who inadvertently clicked somewhere?
In the setting menus there is no mention of that circle thing, it still mentions sense bar... Any way I can get them back.?
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2021.12.07 12:38 itsmeolie Requirements For Fast Wireless Charging
Hi, I've just bought wireless charger that's capable of 15w charging, I'll attach a link so you can see the specs, I know the Fold is 10w wireless charging capable.
Lignum Technology.com Wooden Fast Wireless Smart Phone Charger | Real Wood Qi Charging Pad - compatible with iPhone 13/12/11/X/8, Samsung Galaxy S21/Z/Note/S20, AirPods, Sonos Roam & more (Walnut) https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0979X856ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_0BM2CSZNTYJ420YZVH58?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I thought this would be capable of fast charging but it doesn't seem to when linked with the 25w fast charger from my old Note 10+
When I used my work colleagues wireless charger it said "Fast Wireless Charging", but mine simply says "Wireless Charging"
Do I need to buy a QI charging brick or something?
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2021.12.07 12:38 namer98 Z3 Project Presents: Ari Hoffman - Jewish Telegraphic Agency
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2021.12.07 12:38 actuallymulan First Thing: Devin Nunes to quit Congress for Trump media job - The Guardian
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2021.12.07 12:38 anonymous-shad0w Black Women Have Triple the Odds for Lymphedema After Breast Cancer Surgery
2021.12.07 12:38 Knightofdarkness999 !!! Give Away !!! In 2 hours from post pick a # 1-100 winner picked in 2 hours!! Prize is one of the weapon’s pictured below or 75 of each flux!!!
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