I’m fucking exhausted with my husband

2021.12.04 01:16 depressedstahm I’m fucking exhausted with my husband

I’ve (f24) been married to my (m24) husband for just over a year and we have a gorgeous 4 month old son.
As much as it pains me my married has definitely run it’s course. I’m a stahm and my husband works from home 5 days of the week.
I’m fucking exhausted I can’t do this all by myself anymore. Pls understand that I have ZERO support. I moved 100 miles to be with him and have no friends so here I am. His mother could care less about her grandson. Last time she popped round was august.
I look after my son all day and night, no breaks. he refuses to help apparently his child gives him a headache and he can’t deal with him. He’s the sweetest boy and just needs to be entertained when awake.
I do all the housework by myself, the only way I can get it done is I beg him to hold his child for just a hour so I can speed clean. Even then I’m hounded by him to hurry up because he needs to vape or he’s done ‘babysitting’.
I cook breakfast and dinner, the days when I’m too busy or tired to cook we eat takeout or he just leaves the house to hangout with friends and eats out while I have toast. basically if I don’t cook we starve.
You can imagine how tired I am at the end of the day, but then I got the night shift with baby, he only wakes up once but it would be a godsend if he could just do ONE fucking night. Can’t remember the last time he changed a diaper or fed him a bottle.
He works 8-6 then goes out with friends 4 days of the week to come home at 12am then he smokes a spliff and goes to bed. The cheek of it.
He doesn’t let me smoke because he doesn’t want the mother of his child smoking weed. But fuck that, I still smoke behind his back when he goes to bed. It helps calm me down along with a hot shower when baby is tucked in.
Anyways I went off on him via text earlier when he was out with friends calling him useless and all sorts and his response was sending money to me. Like wtf. I’m fucking done and told him.
I’m going back to my parents where at least I’ll get a break for once. My life would be sooo much easier there since I’ve dropped the man child baggage.
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2021.12.04 01:16 SkullsandBeauty Gold lipstick for a change. Figured I'd post its still Friday my time zone. What you think?

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2021.12.04 01:16 vtc88 WTB Maras

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2021.12.04 01:16 Konain_R_666 NEED TO OPEN ASHX

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2021.12.04 01:16 Sword0928 Fournette for James Robinson & Russell Gage… yay or nay?

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2021.12.04 01:16 Elfthis Eerily similar to Saga of the Seven Suns

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2021.12.04 01:16 Free2BeOG Welcome to Call of Duty: Mobile, 10v10.

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2021.12.04 01:16 ashmit89 Yami Gautam...ssss 👅💋❤(old/new)

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2021.12.04 01:16 whatthe_Long-term Challenging but oh so rewarding

We’ve known each other for 7 years now. I couldn’t quite grasp back then why we never got together the first time we met or the first time we slept together or the first time we said I love you, and so on and so on. So much frustration, heartache and even mental illness was gained through these years. Somehow things didn’t go ‘my way’ or ‘his way’ and I didn’t understand how or why things turned against me (so it seemed). (Little did I know about trusting the great divine order) ✨
3 years ago after a spiritual connection with him, I received a clear vision of us being happy together like we were meant to live joyful lives with each other. In that vision I saw us drinking a cold beverage at a table, at some hotel and I think my dad was with us and he would talk with my twin flame and somehow I overheard him say something along the line of me being perfect for him. Somehow from that vision on, I started craving marriage. Anyway I couldn’t understand where I got this vision from, but I know it was the first time I actually started to believe in ‘happiness.’
The deception after I felt rejected by him short after, broke me so abruptly I fell in a dark place with no explanation and absolutely no idea why this was happening to me.
It took years for me to work on pulling myself together. I contacted him a few times during those years but our communication was poor and he wasn’t grasping our ‘fate’, like I was. So I just figured I must have lost my mind on some disillusion and I forced myself to move on. Because I already gave him plenty of chances.
I met a soulmate then and that relationship ended badly for me. Suicide came close to me but somehow that chapter was needed, for what was to come.
I reconnected with my twin flame and this time all the clues were pointing so obviously towards us being magical together. Our love comes so effortlessly and clearly guided by the heavens. We took years denying our chemistry. It was mostly him who was afraid of this potential. And I was anguished by it all.
I started to put an ultimatum and rejected the idea of a platonic (love-limited) friendship to make him realize our time during this lifeform is limited. I want it now or it would have to be in another life.
Fast forward to now, we are 5 months living together as a couple, we love each other beyond words and everyday is a blessing to wake up and go to sleep next to each other. Our individual wounds are still healing but finally we are able to focus on our real shadow work together knowing the other is there to grow alongside with me.
I felt like sharing a part of our story because I hope to inspire someone to keep pushing through the mud. Your heart knows your path, trust yourself, even when you feel completely lost: the universe knows what it’s doing. You’ll be okay.
Feel free to contact me if there are any questions about my experiences. Thank you for reading!
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2021.12.04 01:16 Longjumping_Ad3829 Beyond 2022

Hey! Who’s going to Beyond in March?? Me(20m) & my girlfriend (18F) will be coming out for the first time from San Diego. Wed love to make some friends before the event so we can go together :). This would be the second festival we attend and first tome at beyond cant wait 👍🏽 were both 420 friendly healthcare workers. Tap in my people 🤞🏼🔥
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2021.12.04 01:16 AKASHRANGER One ui home [SETUP]

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2021.12.04 01:16 imisstheoldBF Lowered gravity, FOV change, improved sounds and we got a different game.

Easy day please give us all our Christmas wish. Forget about a stats menu all you need is 3 changes and you have a brand new game. I'm no game dev but I have to assume these changes are not to difficult for professional trained developers you obviously know how to do these things and I can't think of any reason why not to do it. Unless I'm completely wrong and these changes are actually very complicated but In that case why not communicate with us? explain these things and it will be easier to enjoy the game as I near 200 hours and all I can think when I'm playing is DAMN I wish I could afford a personal computer lol.
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2021.12.04 01:16 okashleymay First time going out without me…

I posted a few days ago about how my WS was being a total asshole and interestingly enough, I’ve seen a huge shift in my WS’s attitude. A few days ago he called out from his second job so he could meet me at home. He ordered some food and when I got home he told me to eat, shower and take my time and when I was ready, he would like to talk. We had a really good conversation about everything that happened and talked about the way he has been treating me. He talked about why he thought he was doing that, and how he’s been thinking about what he did constantly and how dealing with his shame was so hard it was naturally easier to blame shift, and he now realized that. Ever since then, he’s been extremely attentive and remorseful. When I’m upset instead of telling me to get over it, he asks me if I’m OK and if I want to talk about it or if I need space. Instead of waiting for me to get in contact with him all the time, he calls and text me at work just to check and see how I’m doing. Even with little things in the house, he’s always asking if I need any help or if there’s anything I’d like him to do. He even made me laugh the other day. Like genuinely laugh. I hadn’t don’t that since Dday. I’m not ready to put my ring back on or start planning my wedding again, but I definitely feel like if he keeps this up, there’s help.
This brings me to my question today. So tomorrow night, I’m going to be at a local night market for my small business. He told me that one of his coworkers is having a little birthday celebration at a restaurant and she invited him (I should mention that he didn’t cheat with anyone he works with, and AP actually lives like 60 miles away in opposite direction of this restaurant). Also, I know the group of friends he was hanging out with when he was cheating on me, I can’t stand them, and he has stopped hanging out with them. I’ve met a lot of people at his job so I know most of them, and the girl having the birthday party has been to my home and is very nice. He told me he would like to go and ask me if I’m OK with that. Obviously I can’t make him stay home forever, and it does make me feel better that with his recent health issues he isn’t drinking and has decided not to smoke weed anymore. He has offered to do the following:
-Call me every 30 minutes
-Take multiple pictures of himself and the people there
-He has given me the address of the restaurant and told me that he will come home whenever I tell him to or make sure he meets me at home.
-Have the birthday girl call me to confirm that he is there and when he leaves (he told her about his cheating)
I’m not gonna have this girl call me because I don’t want to seem that extra but I am so nervous about all of it and definitely triggered. He told me he knows I don’t trust him at all and that’s his fault, but he wants to know what else he can do to make me more comfortable. I know the circumstances are different and he’s really trying to do a lot to give me and I appreciate that.
What did you guys do when your WS goes out without you? Or when you have to leave them for traveling or something?
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