I don't want to travel with my friend's BF

2022.01.22 23:56 jadekaz I don't want to travel with my friend's BF

Background: My(F30) good friend (F31) Anna got divorced in 2020. She never got to travel much and after her divorce she told me that was one of her regrets. My husband and I are going on a month long trip in Europe summer of 2022 (as the covid situation allows) and we invited her to join us for a week of the trip. (This is because she didn't know how to start planning a trip and this would be her first time leaving the country, she wanted to go with people she knows)
Fast forward to today: Anna has been dating a new BF Fred (M56) for a while now and she asked if he could come with us. The problem is my husband and I both don't like Fred. We both think traveling with him would ruin this leg of the trip. I don't know how to tell Anna that I would travel with her, but I do not want Fred to come with.
Because I know people are going to ask, here are the main reasons we don't like him:
Super negative- it seems like nothing is good enough for him
Mansplainer- for example, he has explained things like both of our careers to us when he has no basis of knowledge on them and he has explained to me the education system in our state... when he has never been part of the system or researched the system while I have.
Off color jokes - he likes to make jokes that come off as really out of touch, like making fun of gay people or making light of r*pe/SA for example
Judgmental- comes off as really judgmental of anyone who doesn't live exactly like he does or in a way he thinks is acceptable
His age- I know age is just a number, but he's the same age as my dad and he uses some of the same expressions as my dad does. I feel like we have a parent with us when we hang out.
Any advice on how to tell her we don't want him to come on out trip?
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