2022.01.22 22:58 nbayoungboyta I reacted poorly to my brother and his wife's miscarriage
My brother and his first wife met in college and had been together for about 10 years, 6 years married. They have one kid together. Everyone loved her and she was very close with my family. I thought my brother was happy, but seemingly out of nowhere he announces that he is filing for a divorce.
It turns out he had been having an affair for two years with one of their family friends, and was planning to leave his first wife for her. They're currently married. I was shocked by this and disgusted with him. He brought his new wife with him to a family event and introduced her to everyone. The first time I met her I thought she was nice enough but didn't say much to her. The more I met her and saw the two of them together the more I hated them.
They almost constantly taunt his ex-wife behind her back, I remember his wife even remarked that my brother's son was so cute that there was no way he was related to his "ugly" ex, and my brother laughed. Another time my brother said something about how his ex-wife "wasted 10 years of his life". You get the point. It's even worse because my brother was one of the sweetest and kindest people I know, it's like someone else took over his body.
Eventually my family and I got fed up and told him he's a disgusting person and we have no interest in speaking to him anymore. Neither me or anyone in my family have spoken to him in almost a year until a week ago when he and his wife showed up to my door and told me she had a miscarriage. He said they needed someone to talk to. I don't remember exactly what I said but something to the extent of laughing and saying "I guess that's gods way of telling you guys you aren't worthy of being parents".
Me and my two sisters are still friends with our brother's ex-wife and visit her often, and my brother is aware of this. My brother apparently contacted his ex-wife after I said that yelling at her saying she told me to say that (which doesn't even make sense because she didn't know what happened until I told her). His ex thinks I crossed a line.
I'm starting to feel bad about what I said too. They're both pieces of shit but nobody deserves what happened to them. Should I make an attempt to reconcile? If so, how?
TLDR; laughed at my brother when he told me he and his mistress (now wife) had a miscarriage, feeling guilty now
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2022.01.22 22:58 Such-Ad4280 Can I use this led to grow carnivorous plants but more importantly seedlings
https://images.app.goo.gl/188qegvLWzqELFNp7 I fond this light and I wondered if it was strong enough to grow any temprent carnivorous plants from seeds
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2022.01.22 22:58 Dervoo [Post Game Thread] Furman defeats Wofford 75-50
2022.01.22 22:58 683Teamster Nice try I guess.
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2022.01.22 22:58 Bg1530 Rt student jobs
Hey everyone- how much do Rt students make in a hospital? I was told after the second semester students can work prn in hospitals. Just planning for the future- thanks!
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2022.01.22 22:58 Centurion87 End of the 1st quarter stats. Gonna be a long night for the 49ers.
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2022.01.22 22:58 Iodine-127 Augustus loves sitting by the window
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2022.01.22 22:58 gumballsartworld Got this well timed photo on my last play through
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2022.01.22 22:58 BlakeClass I thought this would be relevant- listen and ask yourself where you would buy or where you would sell at 2010 Stock Market Flash Crash - Crazy Wild Commentary From Chicago Futures Pit
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2022.01.22 22:58 trashheaps Estonian boyfriend says it's normal to call other women a MILF in front of me?
Just wanted to settle a cultural debate. I was having a party with my friends, and my boyfriend was there. We both live in Finland. A Finnish woman, a friend of a friend, was there and she said something like "I look like a mother." And he said, out loud, to everyone, "Yeah, a MILF." The woman had enough tact to ignore him, and most others were drunk, but I still believe this is an insane thing to say to someone when you're 1 in a relationship and 2 your partner is sitting right next to you. I made it through the rest of the party, eventually my friends went home, and he tried to talk to me like things were normal. I asked him, "do you understand why I'm upset?" and then explained that it's pretty fucked up to say some woman is a MILF in front of me.
He told me that I'm being ridiculous and he can't even "drink in peace" and I always start problems. I explained that if he just said sorry, or maybe that he didn't mean it that way, it would solve the problem immediately. In a desperate attempt to get him to understand how I was feeling, I asked, "if one of your friends said this in front of their girlfriends, would the girlfriends be fine with it?" He said, "yes, this is normal in Estonia. No one gets so upset over stupid shit like you do."
I understand that Estonian culture is a bit cold, and more private than I am used to. It takes time for Estonians to warm up to strangers, unlike my culture, and that's fine. But I think this cannot possibly be normal, even in Estonian.
Is it normal or acceptable to openly hit on people in front of your partner in Estonia? Even taking it as far as telling someone openly that you want to fuck them in front of your partner? Is it normal for Estonian women to just not say anything if this sort of thing happens in front of them? Is this truly an unsolvable cultural difference?
Thank you for taking my post seriously, and spending the time to read it.
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2022.01.22 22:58 Roguen1995 I don’t know if it’s just me but has anybody else had to make a decision to literally evade death?
Yeah, the title doesn’t sound serious but I just want to know if anybody else here has had to make a literal life or death choice.
For me, mine involved a store, a drug addicted robber, a gun, and 9 year old me dressed up in a Halloween costume. (It was Halloween)
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2022.01.22 22:58 Ivory_Rook Anyone Have Experience With Greypoint Homes?
We are planning to building a new house in the San Antonio area through Greypoint Homes. I can’t find much information on them online, but they seemed like a great deal when we spoke with them in person.
Anyone have any experience or reviews with them?
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2022.01.22 22:58 WhiteFlour1989 Best One Of The Day! (230 Total Caught)
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2022.01.22 22:58 Jynxbunni Recommendations for silicone tape and sensitive skin?
I am about 2.5 months post op. I was told to wear silicone tape at night. I’ve been t trying, but after a few nights in a row, my skin starts getting irritated and itchy. Any recommendations on ways to keep it from getting so irritated?
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2022.01.22 22:58 SignificanceNo7257 Cocktail in a tub at indoor mini golf
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2022.01.22 22:58 digitalfruit Does anyone know where to find free practice exams for the LEED GA exam?
I was taking a practice exam on Greence.com and I noticed the grading system was counting some of my correct answers are incorrect, so I am curious to see if there is a better recourse out there.
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2022.01.22 22:58 stayswimmingdonttrip Silver Lining
This case seems to be picking up a bit again and the more years pass without Lauren being found the more I wish the people in Bloomington talked about how much this case did for our community (or at least those of us who are now in our 30s.) I'm a f "townie" who was attending at IU at the time Lauren went missing. I still live in Bloomington and have seen all the changes this town has gone through in the following years. I, too, am 5ft tall and 100lbs and I lived about 5 blocks from the downtown bar area at the time. I frequently went out and walked home alone at night because "it was close! no big deal!"
After that night, my guy friends would never let me step foot anywhere out alone, let alone walk all the way home. It changed the entire way an age group of people thought about the night life in this town. I can almost guarantee you that because of this, more crimes that would have taken place late at night in this party town, never had the chance to happen. Because of Lauren, I refuse to put myself in a position where I am out alone at night. Because of Lauren, I carry mace everywhere I go. Because of Lauren, I always have a plan in place. There are so many women in this town that I've talked to that all had the exact same reaction after she went missing. Thanks to Lauren, the women in this town had to make themselves safer.
I had never really seen the town come together before in the way that they came together in those initial days, weeks. I haven't seen it come together in the same way since. We are a very different city since that happened, this city still had a "town" feel at that time. There are people here that have never heard of Lauren and some that never will. But those of us that were her peers owe her appreciation and thanks, I know her name is a name none of us will forget as the years go on. I always feel so bad when I see Charlene release any sort of new statement and have always wondered if anyone stopped to tell her just how much Lauren did for us as a community during that time.
Charlene- her influence has been profound and she is still talked about in Bloomington. I'm sorry you continue to go through this year after year. Your family doesn't deserve it and you have a lot of people in this community and so much further beyond that still continue to follow this case. She is not forgotten!
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2022.01.22 22:58 TorchicThePJO_Fan What are your stupidest wishes for the New Squidbeak Splatoon in Splatoon 3?
Personally, I would like to see some sort of interaction with Captain Agent Three, Agent 4, New Agent 3, Agent 8, Marie, Callie, and maybe as a bonus because they're not confirmed New Squidbeak Splatoon characters Pearl and Marina. Maybe they could all work together or something I don't know.
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2022.01.22 22:58 Absurdious Yamaha FS-800 or Gretsch Jim Dandy for Blues?
Late beginner looking to start working on learning blues. If anyone has experience with both guitars I’d love to hear your opinion on which one would be best. Thanks in advance. Cheers.
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2022.01.22 22:58 Secure-Entertainer11 Confused about academic access scheme
I got an atar of 85 and I want to apply to B Engineering civil. I got band 5 for both mathematics and English advanced. It says on the website that for getting band 5 u can get 3 extra points for your selection rank. But since I got band 5 for both will they stack up? I know the limit is 5 so I know it won’t stack up to 6 but will getting band 5 in both subject help me get 5 bonus points or do I just get the 3?
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