2022.01.29 00:32 tatertot-overlord I (21F) want to stay moved out of my parents home and keep working the job I love. How can I let them know that I can make my own decisions for my future?
(Sorry if I am terrible at writing these, this is my first post) Currently I (21F) am a senior in college and have been living about three hours away from my parents for the past four years. I am taking a gap year before starting med school and would like to stay in this town to continue my current research. I love my job because it gives me a challenge and flexibility along with the promise of more publications and I have earned my boss's full trust these past two years. However I am conflicted because I could save about $12,000 on rent etc. (sounds like a lot but in the grand scheme of things, living alone and going through med school will put me in about $300k worth of debt). My parents really would like me to come home and find a new job to work for the 10 months, and I could potentially put a dent in my already sizable student debt.
I pay for everything on my own minus health insurance and a phone bill which my parents pay (they still need to cosign my loans due to short-term credit on my end). They have already shut down the idea but I am trying to think of ways to bring it back up in a better way. They have not taken it well because I am making about $8/hr with university mandated pay, but once I graduate my boss has promised to more than double that (his hands are currently tied in this regard by my university). I am the oldest and only daughter with two younger brothers and it has always been incredibly difficult to discuss things like this with my parents because I get shut down immediately whereas my younger brothers get a lot more leeway.
I have crunched all the numbers and don't mind being away from my family, I have already been at this apartment for almost a year and would continue to stay, no moving or any other decisions necessary. I am sure that many will say I should just stay here and tell my parents to screw off but I love my family and want to keep them in my life, this is just a matter of finding the best way to maintain my independence and make some decisions for myself without them pressuring me otherwise.
(tl;dr) Helicopter parents refuse to let me stay moved out during my gap year. I would like to stay to further my research and opportunities as well as maintain my independence and need to figure out how to approach the subject again.
Should I stay moved out, or should I move back in with my parents and live at home for a year? If more info is needed don't hesitate to ask, and I am always open to hearing constructive criticism.
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2022.01.29 00:32 donndmng oh sh*t
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2022.01.29 00:32 Evening_Quiet_3625 Artistic Ape 2 - Leonater397 on Open Sea
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2022.01.29 00:32 Groverman62 I weighed myself this morning and found that I have become 4-5 pounds lighter than when I weighed mysself on Sunday. Is this a cause for celebration or concern?
The change I made for myself is that I didn't eat out from Monday to Thursday. I have been regulary attending the gym for a couple of weeks almost every afternoon since the new years started. But the saw that I wasn't really losing weight and decided there was something else I needed to do. Again that was cut back on the eating at restaurants. I'm worried because from what I've looked up the most a person can heathily lose in a week is just 1 or 2. Should I be worried?
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2022.01.29 00:32 Dtron81 PSA: Spraying Fuel Sources also Effects them in the Fuel Chamber!
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2022.01.29 00:32 VoltovG34 Dell Live Chat - Placing an order
2022.01.29 00:32 colonwq What video best shows how it feels to play Bass in a live performance or practice?
I have played music most of my life and know the feeling of playing live music with others, wether is just at your house or in a live performance, is one of the best experiences one can have.
With COVID restrictions clocking 2 years in our part of the work, my kids are missing out on what this experience sounds and feels like. I can play one instrument at a time and let them hear it, but nothing beats a group of people playing at once, and I want them to get a taste of that. Its so special to be playing in a band, and mid song look around and everyone is giving that "oh yeah" look.
I play music on spotify all the time, so they understand what it sounds like, but seeing someone play is much more inspiring. Also, my tastes might be a bit old for them!
My youngest is interested in Bass guitar and so, what videos or movies would you say best represents playing Bass live?
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2022.01.29 00:32 sa1yanfrog give me smth to watch
I've watched/are watching: one piece, naruto, god of high-school, baki, jjba, hxh, the promised neverland, jujutsu kaisen, black clover, bungo stray dogs, god eater, tokyo ghoul, blue exorcist, fmab, parasyte, magi, akame ga kill, death note, black butler, cells at work, seven deadly sins, soul eater, dr stone, dorohedoro, high rise, hellsing, opm (mightve forgot some) I'll accept mostly anything im just bored rn and want to watch smth but i tend to like action animes more (as you see)
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2022.01.29 00:32 snazzycheese Selling Astral Observatory Wings for 9.5k-11.5k
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2022.01.29 00:32 readreidreed baby blanket replication
if this isn’t allowed, I am very sorry and please remove
Hi! I really need some help. I have recently been wanting to get a replication of my baby blanket. I’m a junior in college now and my blanket is unrecognizable. I’d like a replication so that I can put up the original to preserve what’s left. The problem is I have absolutely no sewing experience and have no idea how to make a blanket, let alone the exact one I want. Several people have suggested based on my photos that the blanket is hand quilted, but I have no idea how to do or go about it.
I searched for a long time yesterday and was able to find the main fabric for the top side, but that’s all I really could do. Is there anyone/anywhere that does something like this or am I getting my hopes up for nothing? Any suggestions helpful.
This blanket means so much and this is so so so important to me.
thank you !!
Edit: I can’t for the life of me find any photos of the original blanket, but here are some of the blanket now if that helps any!
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2022.01.29 00:32 Zain_Dorito Will connecting a monitor to my laptop increase my fps while gaming
I have a 60hz laptop with AMD Radeon and AMD Ryzen 5. If I connect a 144hz monitor to my laptop will it boost my fps at all? I currently get 60-80fps in game. Sorry if this is a dumb question idk anythint about this sort of stuff
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2022.01.29 00:32 Sic-Bern When I get asked a question during a meeting.
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2022.01.29 00:32 OnlyManOnMars Gifted Child - New Sensations
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2022.01.29 00:32 2Kool4MichaelJackson A fast wand with a very effective digging wand
2022.01.29 00:32 alexfights34 Giveaway! Like 10 pieces in this collection to receive 1. Each one is unique
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2022.01.29 00:32 jimmyrok9 Jimmy's Soccer Picks Jan 29th
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Colombia vs Peru: Colombia @ 1.67❌
Venezuela vs Bolivia: Bolivia @ 5.00❌
Huddersfield Town vs Stoke City: BTTS @ 1.83✅
Nantes vs Stade Brestois: Nantes @ 2.10✅
Queens Park Rangers (QPR) vs Reading: BTTS @ 1.78
Fulham vs Blackpool: Fulham -1.5 @ 1.87
Barnsley vs Bournemouth AFC: Bournemouth AFC @ 1.60
Luton Town vs Blackburn Rovers: X2 (Blackburn Rovers/Draw) @ 1.53
Africa Cup of Nations
Burkina Faso vs Tunisia: Tunisia @ 2.50
Gambia vs Cameroon: Cameroon @ 1.60
Portugal League Cup
Benfica vs Sporting CP: BTTS @ 1.80
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2022.01.29 00:32 middlesidetopwise What The Simpsons Was Talking About, Part 1
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2022.01.29 00:32 Left_Berry_8104 [TVInsider] Nancy Drew showrunners break down the Season 3 finale and whats next.
2022.01.29 00:32 BL1860B Camo’d some PVC to lay in the forest to draw water. How did I do?
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2022.01.29 00:32 Orleanist JU from r/suspiciouslyspecific. It’s specifically not suspiciously specific.
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2022.01.29 00:32 TheXBoxer [PS4] H: TSE90 Gatling Laser W: V50c25 Enclave Plasma with Aligned Automatic Barrel, Stabilized Stock, and Reflex Sight.
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2022.01.29 00:32 New_Mexico_Seeds Mephisto's Sour Stompers day 65ish
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2022.01.29 00:32 xelf at 6pm every day, discord voice and minecraft multiplayer stop working unless I use a private vpn
I've gone through every possible setting on the router, and I've rebooted the router and all the computers, I've tried a second router that connects to comcast router, nothing solves the issue. Discord textchat works, but discord voice stops. Most other games work, but not minecraft multiplayer.
Finally I signed up for a vpn, and while it's slow, at least minecraft works. What possible setting could there be that causes this, and with such punctuality every day?
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2022.01.29 00:32 ImSoQwertyy Dang, 1.18 lookin fresh
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2022.01.29 00:32 justking1414 [Lonely Attack in a Different World]
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